Adding Animal Family Members
In my line of work I often have multiple consecutive sessions with same or similar theme. The most recent recurring theme is integrating new animals into an already existing household.
So let’s talk this from an animistic, true kinship view.
Before adopting, be sure to consider temperament, compatibility, your already existing animal family and your life style.
Keep in mind when an animal is being rehomed they are going through an uncertain and stressful time. They’re no longer at home and with their family. They’ve been in an interim situation, possibly many before coming to you.
When it comes to how long integration takes, I don’t find a set answer. From a true kinship perspective, I feel the honest answer is it takes as long as it takes. Or maybe the more nuanced answer is until they feel comfortable and at home.
Here are some suggestions you may find helpful when integrating a new animal family member into your household:
Be gradual with the integration process. Look at this from the animal’s perspective, not the human perspective. They need time to feel at ease with the new place, animal and human family, expectations and routines.
Recognize signs of stress. This may be barking, crying, hiding, not eating or drinking, having accidents. Watch their body language for clues. If you see this, consider contacting your vet.
Know your limit. Life changes, situations change. Be aware of your strength, mobility, energy levels and any other circumstances that might affect you participation with your animal family.
I hope this encourages you to look at your relationship with animals differently so that a new place of understanding begins to open for you.
My work is devoted to helping you show up in the world for animals from the fullness of your authentic self. To find out more visit my site.
Just for today remember: We all do better when all creatures do better. Until next time, take good care!
Janet Roper is a podcaster, intuitive practitioner and mentor who for 20+ years has helped people restructure their relationship with animals. Two of her most popular resources are her monthly newsletter and her podcast True Kinship With Animals. Visit her website to learn more.
