The Dog’s Sit In
When we step away from our colonized perspective, the one that tells us what our relationship with animals ‘should’ look like and step into being in true kinship with animals, we begin to notice animals acting more and more in their own agency.
It’s refreshing to be in that place and it can be humorous too.
One of my human clients shared a story with me, which, with permission, I am sharing with you.
They said they got a call from the humane society where they volunteer. One of the dog walkers had called in sick and they needed someone to come in that afternoon to help out.
My client agreed to go in and help. The last dog they walked that day was a huge Pyrenees dog, about a 100 pounds. Everything went fine until they turned around to start back to the shelter.
The Pyrenees walked slower and slower the closer they got. When they reached the door, he stopped, gave my client a baleful look and politely sat down in front of it.
Not to move.
My client admitted while a small part of them was annoyed (because that’s the way they thought they should react), a much larger part cheered for the dog using what was at his means to get his point across. He got added extra human attention, more treats and his outside time extended beyond just the short walk. Score for the dog!
That dog plainly felt safe and confident in his agency. I admire him AND I applaud my client for recognizing what was happening and witnessing the dog instead of forcing the issue of him going inside.
I hope this encourages you to look at your relationship with animals differently so that a new place of understanding begins to open for you, allowing you to identify your internalized narratives and guiding principles with animals.
My work is devoted to helping you show up in the world for animals from the fullness of your authentic self. To find out more visit janetroper.com
Just for today remember: We all do better when all creatures do better. Until next time, take good care!
Janet Roper is a podcaster, intuitive practitioner and mentor who for 20+ years has helped people restructure their relationship with animals. Two of her most popular resources are her monthly newsletter and her podcast True Kinship With Animals. Visit her website to learn more.
